If a young woman is not proposed to, is this a sign of punishment from Allaah Azz awa Jal?

If a young woman is not proposed to, is this a sign of punishment from Allaah Azz awa Jal?

By

Shaykh AbdulAziz bin Abdullaah bin Baz

Translated

By

Abbas Abu Yahya

Question:

My older sister and I have not been married yet, even though our female friends have married and have produced children. Is this from the Anger of Allaah upon us?

The Answer:

‘That is not necessarily the case, there could be other reasons other than sin. Our Lord, the Most-Wise and All-Knowing – Most Magnificent, Most High. He perhaps trials a person with other means other than sins.

Allaah Ta’ala says:

وَمَا أَصَابَكُم مِّن مُّصِيبَةٍ فَبِمَا كَسَبَتْ أَيْدِيكُمْ وَيَعْفُو عَن كَثِيرٍ

<< And whatever of misfortune befalls you, it is because of what your hands have earned. And He pardons much. >> [Shuraa: 30]

It could perhaps be other than sin, and perhaps it could be something else which a woman did that caused the cancellation of that need, and it perhaps could be sins and mistakes which she carried out which prevented her from her need.

There are many reasons, from them are sins and perhaps other reasons other than sins.

It is upon you both to ask Allaah and implore Him to make your matter easy and receive glad tidings. A person asks his Lord, in Sajda, in prayer during the last part of the night, he asks his Lord and Allaah gives him what he loves of marriage and other matters.

[Fatawa Noor ala Darb no. 19759]

هـل عـدم تـقـدم الـخـطـاب لـبـعـض الـفـتـيـات عـقـاب مـن الـلـه عـز وجـل ؟

❍ للشـيخ العلامـہ  ؏ـبد العزيز بن ؏ـبد اللَّـہ بـن بـاز 

 ـ رحمـہ اللّـہ تـعالـﮯ ـ

▪️ السُّـــــــــؤَالُ :

أنا وأختي الكبرى لم نتزوج بعد, بالرغم من أن زميلاتنا البنات تزوجن وأنجبن, فهل يعد ذلك من سخط الله علينا ؟؟

الجَـــ ـــوَابُ :

ليس بلازم، قد يكون بأسباب أخرى غير الذنب ..

ربنا حكيم عليم جل علا، قد يبتلى الإنسان بأسباب أخرى غير الذنوب

قال تعالى :

(( وَمَا أَصَابَكُم مِّن مُّصِيبَةٍ فَبِمَا كَسَبَتْ أَيْدِيكُمْ وَيَعْفُو عَن كَثِيرٍ ))

( الشورى : 30 )

وقد يكون سببه غير ذنب، وقد يكون أسباب فعلها سببت تعطيل تلك الحاجة، وقد تكون ذنوب ومعاصي فعلها سببت فيه منع حاجته .

فالأسباب كثيرة منها المعاصي وقد تكون أسباب أخرى غير المعاصي .

–  فعليكما سؤال الله والضراعة إليه أن يسهل أمركما وأبشرا بالخير، الإنسان يسأل ربه ، في السجود ، وفي الصلاة في آخر الليل يسأل ربه أن الله يعطيه ما يحب من الزواج وغيره .

  المصــ⇩⇩ــدر

( فـتـاوى نـور عـلى الـدرب / 19759 )

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